I feel left out becuase my family all had kids as teenagers and i didnt?

i have a huge family, there is ALWAYS at least one female pregnant at one time, i feel like i dont belong,all my cousins have had kids before there 18, im 20, and im a virgin! its so wierd, why are they all trashy like that and im not....I feel left out becuase my family all had kids as teenagers and i didnt?
You are better than them and have more self respect. Just take your life at your own pace.I feel left out becuase my family all had kids as teenagers and i didnt?
for one having a baby young is not trashy.I don't understand why you feel left out if you think it is trashy??????????
You are smart, you don't waste time on looking after children, you are young and pretty, you can enjoy freedom and beautiful single life until you find a really good man.
Well, I was going to say that you should feel intelligent instead of left out. But then you had to go and ruin it by calling **everyone** 'trashy', so now I鈥檓 going to say, stop being so damn judgmental. Just because someone has a child before the age of 18 does not automatically make them 'trashy' (and I didn鈥檛 have my first child until 25, so this is *not* a case of me being personally offended because I was one of 鈥榯hem鈥?. Don鈥檛 worry about what anyone else is doing, that鈥檚 not your business. You only need to worry about what you鈥檙e doing.
Don't feel left out. They all ruined their lives. You're still going strong.
Dude, don't feel left out. All they'll have to call themselves is a ';committed mommy!'; whilst you can actually make something of yourself. Please, for the love of God, don't cave into your family tradition. Stay strong.
they are your cousins, they have diffenert parents and were raised different. your parents realized that there is a problem in your area with teen pregnancy, and made sure that thier daughter wasn't gonna be one of those teens that ruin there life getting pregnant, so without you knowing they put a higher standard of living in your mind about ssex.


they kept you pure. now in the next couple of years you will see how much more your cousins are gonna struggle living thier lives while you are having fun cuz you are not tided down like they are.
Hey pretty lady you should be happy that you don't have any kids yet.So that mean that you could go have fun party go to the movie with friends and also do Alto of other stuff.Pretty lady you should be happy right now you don't have any worry so be happy before it to late.You should be prove of yourself bein a virgin it's hard work to be pure.
There is nothing wrong with being different and while you are out enjoying your life they are at home with there kids and probably relationships that wont last much longer. So have fun go to school explorer the world and don't worry about what anyone thinks of you or says. Be you and no one else.





I think they are jealous cause you have your life and they don't.
You know what? Life is mostly an evil cycle. A woman gets pregnant at a young age, and her daughter also gets pregnant at a young age and HER daughter..... it just goes on.





Don't feel left out. If you think what they have done wasn't the smartest thing they could have done for themselves then DONT DO IT TOO!





People dont become smart or rich over night. A parent should go without to make their child's life BETTER. You don't go buy name brand shoes; instead you buy cheap stuff so you can afford to get your kids a great education. Better education, more wealth.





And I don't mean the purpose is to make tons of cash. But the more education you have, the more opportunities you have! The more prepared you are for all of the crazy things life throws at you.





You should put yourself in a better situation before you have children.





You aren't weird. They are.





Love your family. But recognize their flaws. Not to criticize them... but to learn from their mistakes.